Patient Story: Embracing Surrogacy with RBA
Posted on November 11, 2024
My husband and I struggled with being “reproductively challenged” for seven long years before finally welcoming our son into the world through surrogacy. Our journey was filled with highs and lows, moments of hope and despair, and ultimately, a beautiful ending that was worth every step. Here’s our story, and how Reproductive Biology Associates (RBA) played a crucial role in helping us achieve our dream of parenthood.
The Beginning of Our Journey
We first visited RBA in 2015, eager to start our fertility protocol and hopeful that our dream of becoming parents would soon be realized. Over the next few years, we underwent numerous tests, semen analysis, and even froze sperm to prepare for our attempts to conceive. We tried two IUI (intrauterine insemination) procedures, both of which were unsuccessful.
The IVF Rollercoaster
Undeterred, we moved on to IVF (in vitro fertilization). Our first IVF cycle was a disappointment, producing three genetically abnormal embryos. But we didn’t give up. Our second IVF cycle brought new hope, yielding three genetically normal embryos. In 2018, we experienced a heartbreaking setback with an unsuccessful embryo transfer. With only two genetically normal embryos remaining, we found ourselves at a crossroads.
A Time of Reflection and New Perspectives
The year that followed was incredibly challenging, both emotionally and financially. We spent that time weighing our options, considering whether to attempt another embryo transfer or embark on a new IVF cycle in the future. It was a period of deep reflection, during which we gained a new perspective on our journey. Our hearts began to open to non-traditional options, and we started to consider the possibility of using a gestational carrier.
Embracing Surrogacy
Late in our infertility journey, we found a surrogacy agency whose mission aligned perfectly with our desires. We were matched with a beautiful soul who felt it was her calling to selflessly carry our child into the world. The surrogacy process was an emotional yet hopeful chapter for us. Our gestational carrier’s protocol and the successful embryo transfer in 2021 were also conducted at RBA, ensuring continuity and expert care throughout the process.
Our Miracle Arrives
In February of 2022, our long-awaited blessing arrived. Holding our son for the first time was a moment of indescribable joy and relief. All the years of struggle, heartbreak, and perseverance had led us to this precious moment. Our son’s arrival was the culmination of an incredible journey, made possible by the dedicated team at RBA and the selflessness of our gestational carrier.
A Message of Hope
For anyone facing similar challenges, we want you to know that there is hope. The journey may be long and difficult, but there are options and support available to help you achieve your dream of parenthood. RBA was our guiding light through the darkest times, providing expertise, compassion, and unwavering support.
Take the Next Step with RBA
If you are struggling with infertility and considering your options, we invite you to explore the possibilities with Reproductive Biology Associates. Whether you are just starting your journey or contemplating alternative paths like surrogacy, RBA is here to help. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and learn more about how we can assist you in achieving your dream of parenthood.